Q&A: I caught my fiance trying on one of my mothers old cocktail dresses and full slips! What would you?
Question by Mary: I caught my fiance trying on one of my mothers old cocktail dresses and full slips! What would you?
have said, or done or thought?
We are staying at my moms for Thanksgiving and she has a lot of her old stuff hanging in the room we are staying in.
Anyway,my mother and I came back really early from shopping and we caught him prancing around in her old peach chiffon cocktail dress.
He says he was just bored and curious.
My mother is still laughing and teasing him about it!
Best answer:
Answer by Clarence
ask him whether this is seriously a fetish of his or he was just having a laugh first of all. if it was a laugh then yeah i would find it very funny if my man dressed up. if it wasn’t then you need to have a chat!
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April 2nd, 2012 at 2:07 am
This is big trouble. He’s a cross dresser or bi curious or something equally as bad. Drop him like a bad habit.
April 2nd, 2012 at 2:47 am
Don’t do anything. Laugh with your mom. At the very worst your fiance is a closet cross dresser. That doesn’t make him a pervert or gay. It’s just a fetish. No big deal. If this is his fetish may you could even help him dress from time to time.
April 2nd, 2012 at 3:08 am
I think you need to join your mother in laughing about it. If he does anything later on in the same category, then have a very serious talk with him about his true desire.
April 2nd, 2012 at 3:38 am
well if he looked good in it, no big deal, i mean if a man can pull that off i applaud him.
But if he looked like a guy in a dress, well i think he needs never to put one on again.
Seriously, what do you think, what was his reaction when you came into the room.
how does he take the teasing that your mom gives him. lets face it, there are a lot worse things you man can be into then cross dressing.
April 2nd, 2012 at 4:10 am
OMG! I would be so embarrassed… I’d have to have a long talk w/ my husband!!
April 2nd, 2012 at 4:13 am
Good thing he is your fiancee and not your husband.
Time to re-evaluate the situation.
April 2nd, 2012 at 4:50 am
You are going to have to have an honest discussion with him. If it’s just a fetish fine you can probably live with that, but worst-caseis that he is a closet gay, and you are his “beard”.
In Short, you need to make sure you’re both being honest with each other so that your marriage isn’t built on a lie.
April 2nd, 2012 at 4:51 am
I really don’t think you should freak out about this, it could just be him as he said, bored and messing around.
But I would seriously sit down and talk about this. Let him know that if he has something to tell you that you’re open to hearing it now BEFORE you get married.
Good luck!
April 2nd, 2012 at 5:45 am
Tell “Sally” to hit the road. He may be able to find another man with the same kink.
April 2nd, 2012 at 6:23 am
I would break up.